Showing different kinds of behavior issues is only a part of growing up. It is not the same for every toddler. Every toddler tends to express himself in unique ways. Most of the behavior your toddler is showing right now is going to go away with time but that certainly doesn’t mean you let him continue to act in an unacceptable manner.
What could be worse than facing terrible twos or the tantrum threes? Toddlers might continuously show disregard for good behavior and discipline. This can be a cause of worry for many parents. There are different ways to curb this worrisome behavior in your toddler. Remember if you don’t solve behavior issues at this age, you might turn it into lifelong habit.
Here are some simple ways to deal with behavior problems in toddlers:
- Dealing with your toddler’s biting and kicking
Two or three year olds kids show aggressive signs in the form biting and kicking. Toddlers often do this to get immediate attention. It will turn into a habit if you respond to it every time.
You need to explain it to your toddler that his actions will have repercussions. Shouting at your toddler when he kicks or bites is not the solution. It can make him even more aggressive. Simply take away some of his privileges like watching his favorite poem or playing with a certain toy. Take out some time to explain to your toddler the reason for taking away these privileges. Tell your toddler how he can avoid this situation next time.
- Dealing with your screaming toddler
Toddlers usually have really high volumes because they are brimming with energy. They don’t scream only because they want to show anger. Very often they scream because they don’t know it is wrong. They may like the fact that every time they shout, they get to have your attention.
Never shout back at your toddler. They get the impression that it is alright to shout. Make sure your little one is well slept and well fed. You can even help him learn the different between soft and loud. Shout and ask your toddler to shout. Then lower your voice and ask your toddler to do it too. Next time he shouts, tell him speak softly. When you ask him to do it, make sure you are speaking softly as well.
- Dealing with your toddler’s temper tantrum
Right now, your toddler is learning how to handle various emotions. At one moment you must be thinking what a calm child you have and the very next moment he will be throwing temper tantrum. Your toddler can be crying out loud and screaming because of no reason at all. This is something common for kids one to three years old. At this age, your toddler understands what you are trying to explain to him but may find it hard to express himself. This frustrates him and makes him throw tantrums.
You need to remain calm. It is not going to help if you act like him as well. At this point, forcing him to stop or shouting at him is only going to have opposite results. Sit somewhere near to him and give out your hand. You can even embrace him in a comforting manner and stroke his back. Tell him you love him and everything is fine.
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