Vaginismus is a very common condition experienced mainly by females without previous sexual experience or victims of sexual abuse and also a variety of other women.
Vaginismus causes muscle tightening and spasms before or during the act of penetration causing the sensation of a block, discomfort, unease and sometimes pain. In most cases this is triggered by a psycho-sexual inhibition and there is very rarely a physical problem.
Taking the time a few weeks-months to becoming comfortable with ones partner is usual the cure. For example, just having foreplay and not attempting penetrative intercourse is a good method to mentally engage the brain with the fear of penetration following. Lubricants may also help- you can also get over the counter lubricant with very mild local anaesthetics if pain occurs.
It is very normal thing to experience especially in newly married couples. We are confident that by relaxing, speaking to your partner openly and taking your time this issue will pass on its own.
However If the problem persists or if you need to speak to someone consult your GP or local Gyne for advice. In some cases behavioural therapy, exercises or gradual dilation maybe recommended. Or in extremely rare cases a physical issue may be the cause which can be identified by your medical professional.
Good luck!
*Disclaimer- all our advice is general and based on the limited information provided to us in each question- always consult your GP for advice and guidance if a problem persists*
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